So thats how its supposed to be? You meet a guy, he's attracted to you and he's supposed to pursue you. If only it were that easy as people make it seem. Is it so wrong to expect something more than that? Even the pursuit itself. If your going to pursue me at least make a consistent effort. Neither of us has the time in different senses of the word to mess around. This is either make it work or don't. Also talk to me. Don't assume I know what your thinking. Men know women are always thinking and obsess over the smallest things. Like teachers used to say in elementary school "pretend I'm an alien from another planet, tell me what you'd say". If thats what it comes down to then so be it. I can't function like a sane human being with this burden.